My Gram

My Gram

February, 1966
February, 1966

Alpha Madalene Roberts Pratt
November 10, 1906 – August 14, 1975

It was a late summer evening in Flint, Michigan, and already dark as Mom and I got in the car for a last minute trip to the store for diapers.  It had been a long and exhausting day, and my emotions were extremely fragile.  As Mom pulled out onto the very familiar road in front of Gram and Pop’s house, we began to talk about the day’s activities.  Suddenly I couldn’t cope with the inevitable, and I began to sob.  “But I don’t want her to die.  What will we do without her?  My children will never know my Gram.”  My adored Gram was dying.  She was losing her battle against cancer, and her life was quickly slipping away.  My sense of loss was overwhelming.

That August of 1975 I was a young mother, just 21 years old.  I was delighted to have a darling baby daughter and anxious to show her off to my extended family.  Unfortunately, this reunion had come as a result of very difficult circumstances.  My Grandmother Pratt was dying of cancer.  Knowing that her time was very short, Yvonne and I had taken our new babies – Matthew and Emily – for a visit.  We had been to the hospital that day to introduce these newest descendants to their great-grandmother.  She was very weak, but had been able to hold each of the babies for a short time.  Although she was thrilled at meeting the youngest members of the family, it was probably more important to me for Gram to see my baby, than it was to her.  Gram had played a very important part in my life, and my growing up was full of wonderful memories of Gram and Poppie.  Because Emily was only three months old, I hadn’t had time to emotionally put my mother in the grandmother role.  The grandmother in our family was Gram, and I was devastated to think that my children were going to grow up without her.  How would they have special grandparent memories?

May, 1972
May, 1972

l-r:  Pop – Lynnette – Gram – Michelle – Mom – Dad – Carolyn

Gram and Pop with grandchildren - 1963
Gram and Pop with grandchildren - 1963

Back:  Yvonne – Mike (Peterson) – Gram – Carolyn
Middle:  Tom – Poppie – Bryan – Greg (Burgess)
Front:  David – Mark (Peterson) – Jeff – Lynnette

Yvonne - Lynnette (behind doll) - Gram
Lynnette - Yvonne (behind doll) - Gram -- Christmas 1955

Gram died shortly after that trip to Michigan, and none of my children know her except through pictures and stories.  But they haven’t missed out on grandparent time.  They know “Gram” as my mother, and their lives have been enriched by happy experiences with all of their grandparents.  Now it’s my turn to create happy grandmother memories with the next generation – and I gladly accept!

Thanks for all the wonderful memories, Gram.

I hope that I can be the kind of grandmother you were.

Happy 103!


Christmas 2008

Christmas 2008

A few of my favorite memories:

pleasant accommodations

christmas-tree
O Christmas Tree
Snowmobile Lodge - Duck Creek Canyon
Snowmobile Lodge - Duck Creek Canyon

delightful grandkids

Fresh tortillas
Fresh tortillas
Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas, Maddie!

Hello . . . hello
Hello . . . hello - it's Charlie here.
Never too young for adventure
Never too young for adventure
This boy can rock!
This boy can rock!

tasty food

pete
Master of calzones
Sticky buns on steroids
Sticky buns on steroids

unusual weather- snow in St. George?

That's snow on those hills
That's snow on those hills

competitive card games

britt-nikki-cards
Are you going to buy that card, Nikki?

Get serious, Mark!
Get serious, Mark!
Nate's pretty confident about this hand
Nate's pretty confident about this hand

thoughtful gifts

Pete and Elmer
Pete and Elmer
Mark loves Christmas
Mark loves Christmas
wii
Don enters the gaming world

All this for a vacuum?
All this for a vacuum?
The Nie-Nie bowls were a smash hit!
The Nie-Nie bowls were a smash hit!
"Our Favorite Things"
"Our Favorite Things"
Jack's tribute to Emily - water color on canvas
Jack's tribute to Emily - water color on canvas

awesome activities

Gentlemen, start your engines
Gentlemen, start your engines
Uncle Nate helps out
Uncle Nate helps out
Don't get in her way!
Don't get in her way!
Ping-pong competition
Ping-pong competition
Ping pong is always better with a background of Rock Band
Ping pong is always better with a background of Rock Band

exceptional company

family-group

The celebration was all I hoped it would be, and I returned home happy, rested, and even more grateful for my family.